Saylor Win writes about the things your nervous system won't say out loud. After years of choosing chaos over calm and mistaking anxiety for chemistry, Saylor discovered why healthy love felt so dangerously boring—and why that discomfort was actually the most important signal to pay attention to. Combining memoir with nervous system science, Saylor's work explores attachment patterns, relationship anxiety, and the uncomfortable truth that safety can feel scarier than chaos when you're wired for survival instead of softness . For anyone who's ever sabotaged something good because it didn't feel "right."